No mortal harms

“In death’s midst I am Life: no mortal harms
Touch you who yield yourself into my keeping
Safe-folded in the everlasting arms”

Confession, Margaret Willy, Every Star a Tongue (1946)

I recall my aunt’s piece. How, in her twenties, she fought back from the “razor edge of reason”. How “taut terror slowly died”. I recite her psalmody. Remember how her crisis passed. “Safe-folded in the Everlasting Arms.” I too am safe-folded in the Everlasting Arms. I am in God’s Arms. I rock back and forth.

As I work 17-hour days, do not see my house in daylight, I become less and less resilient to the ostracism, the suicidality, the rejection. I am more desperate for it to end. My plea for it to end is ignored. Instead I am further rejected;  told by the mental health skills group this week that I can’t be ill, if I am a psychologist; if I already know about the skills being taught. I tell them mental illness is more than a lack of skill. But, I am told that I have left them all without hope. So I walk away. It costs to do that. I sit, crumpled, folded in two, crying uncontrollably. One place I was supposed to be accepted in spite of being ill, because everyone is ill. I needed the pain to end. Death seems the only way to end it.

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Safe folded in the Everlasting Arms

My aunt’s voice resurfaces. No matter how loudly the voice in my head tells me I would be better dead; worth more to everyone that way. No matter how many more years of mental illness I have ahead of me. No matter what people think of me, or what they say about me; how much more prejudice and discrimination I must endure at the hands of a church that claims it cares about me. No matter what. I am God’s. Nothing will be allowed to truly hurt me while He is looking after me.

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One Response to No mortal harms

  1. Yes, you are God’s. And no matter how desperate you feel, the Divine is always consistent: consistent in love, consistent in acceptance, consistent in welcome.

    There is one thing about which I am confident for you: you know that place of stillness and deep contemplation. It is a place that only you can go. So breath deeply, and visualise those Everlasting Arms – holding you, hugging you, embracing you.

    [[[hugs]]] x

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